By yours truly.
You are to enhance
the pleasure of another.
Moral decisions should
be based on their
Ideally, a morally sound decision
enhances the pleasure of both the decider
and those affected by the decision.
A sadist ( without consent )
is making morally unsound decisions
because they are acting to reduce
the pleasure of another for
their own pleasure.
A symbiotic relationship between sadist and masochist can be considered moral because the masochist experience their own pain as pleasure while a sadist experiences the masochistic pain as their own pleasure.
There is a certain logic that can dictate moral decisions without regarding societal conventions which may deem certain actions immoral. But these immoral actions are simply immoral because they are unusual and misunderstood. Not all, but some.
People who do not wish to
enhance the pleasure of another
did not satisfy their own necessity
for self satisfaction
In order to enhance the lives of the other
one must fully enhance their own lives,
according to what a logically sound mind
and individualized tastes would dictate.
This view would dictate that
moral decisions would ultimately
be conceived to further the "greater good"
the nuances that divide
an objective theory of morality
are contextually based
Suffering can still contribute to a moral decision, if it is willing and on the part of the decider.
ultimately, moral decisions should lend themselves to a sort of pleasure if not in both parties, at least in those affected by the decision.
A decision that produces overwhelmingly negative consequences on the part of those affected is not morally sound. If a decision causes the individual considerable strife, but causes the receiver great pleasure, it remains moral.
Different scales of moral value are produced by varying capacities for empathy.
A person who cannot empathize is not capable of experiencing the pleasure that an individual or group gains by their actions, so moral decisions are not particularly favorable.
Selflessness is not inherent. I am unsure as to whether it can be taught but I am certain it can be lost.
Bear in mind, this particular idea is, like all others, subject to argument.